If you are looking for some live encouragement for your "motherhood in the trenches" moments, here is an article I encourage you to read.
"Frantic" by Rachel Jankovic
Here's an excerpt -
"His path for us was not our path for us, but it was a path of mercy, and
joy, and delight, and tears, and sweat, and growth beyond what we would
have ever tried for. I often think of our children as one of God’s most
amazing investment plans for our life. And because we are seeking to
honor God, things get deducted automatically. We have signed up to give
more than we ever, ever could have of our own strength. When you are up
in the middle of the night, God is not letting your life go to waste.
When you are up earlier than you ever should have been – God is telling
you that He has a plan for this life of yours. If every moment of child
care was voluntary – if you could put your kids’ needs on pause, or
postpone that work for another month or two, we would all be doing it.
We would want the DVR version of our children’s lives. Skip the
commercials of potty training, and feeding them every hour, and the
croup moments, and the snarls over toys, and the heaviness of worry.
Skip morning sickness. We would skip all the things that refine us,
because our flesh is weak. But God, in His merciful kindness, has more
for us than our flesh would ever volunteer for.....
So continue to rely on Him. Live in joy. Believe His mercy. Know that
your trials, lived in obedience, are yielding more profit and fruit in
your life than anything else could, at least in part because investments
from you are being taken against your will, and probably against your
better judgment. You couldn’t be who God wants you to be without this.
Your children would not be who God wants them to be without this,
because this is what He has given you, and you are who He has
given them. And when you know all these things, and you believe all
these things, just hang on like crazy, and laugh."
Thank you Leah. Yes, we certainly would skip all the things that refine us. This is a great article.
ReplyDeletethank you Leah- I passed it on to some friends too :) My life would be so short with all the "things" i would skip and want to delete out(good thing I don't have a keyboard backspace) - I am blesses and it's good to be reminded of that!
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